Super Nerdy Church Girl

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I am an author of Christian Romance novels. My debut novel, “Ruth’s Awakening: A Love Story is available on Amazon and Kindle. I love living, learning and laughing. I would rather have a great experience than a new purse or shoes. Let’s grow in Christ together.

Category: Men

  • Feeling Extra, Extra Single.

    Someone I know is getting married. There is wedding planning discussions all the time, which I sometimes initiate and enjoy. However, this crap has me feeling extra, extra single. Discussing this extra, extra single phenomenon with a friend. She says, "I was in a meeting and everyone had a wedding ring except 1 senior citizen,…

  • But He Has Potential!

    But He Had Potential. http://www.youtube-nocookie.com/embed/GpSuYZ2j5Ww     When it comes to attraction to a man, what a woman  likes at 18 is different than what she likes at 30. If I could impart any aged wisdom to young women looking for a mate – look with your more mature lens. Project your future. Maybe he is…

  • Are There Any Nice Guys Left?

    I met a woman on Sunday who said she met her husband at a singles' ministry at church. This is the second woman from that church, my church, that has told me this. The problem? The singles' ministry is not that active anymore. Anyway. I was feeling bored and lonley this weekend so when The…

  • P.S. My Gut Feeling Is ALWAYS Right

    This past week has been a roller coaster of emotional ups, downs and suspension. Come Monday, I am officially in the second week of my two weeks' notice. With one end in site and a new beginning on the horizon, I   guess this was the devil's time to get busy. For brevity I'll just focus on…

  • Ok. I Lied About Going Out

    In the last post I stated that the next man that asked me out I would say yes to. NEVER EVER, NEVER EVER, EVER say that. I swear he next guys came up to me at work lying like we had met before and the State Fair. This line probably would have worked on a…

  • Reality TV and Reality Me

    I always watch the first couple of seasons of a reality show and then later on become disgusted with the show and myself for watching it. lol Flavor of Love, I Love New York, Basketball Wives. . .need I list more? I know the shows are staged and the most crass behavior is celebrated. I…

  • I Love the Ultimate Merger 2

    I wrote a post once posing the question, "Why do black women go on the bachelor?" By episode two they are dunzo! I had a hope, no a DREAM: A reality show where the brown girl was the object of so many wonderful men's desires. Like, seriously, where they do that at? lol TV One!…

  • Is Celibacy A Necessity For the Single Christian?

    You all should know my view on this but for discussion's sake, I'll entertain the question. I grew up in the holy, sanctified Church of God in Christ. Girls wore no pants, make up. We were not allowed to listen to secular music. Everyone knew that sex before marriage was a grave sin. Times have…

  • Church Socials Or The Dreaded Singles’ Event

    I recently attended a singles' event at a local church. It was designed like a "play date" event. I thought why not? I had sworn off such a events previously because they are just too weird. The first one I attended, a couple of years ago , alone. It was a party-type atmosphere at a converted…

  • Build-A-Man Just like Build-A-Bear but Cheaper

    I was over at Very Smart Brothas and ran across a post entitled, "Building the Perfect Woman." I won't go into the ridiculousness that men consider "perfect" on a woman. Suffice it to say, if it were left up to men, women would be a conglomeration of double d's, a big butt and a smile. The…