Super Nerdy Church Girl

A little nerdy, a little churchy, and a little flirty

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I am an author of Christian Romance novels. My debut novel, “Ruth’s Awakening: A Love Story is available on Amazon and Kindle. I love living, learning and laughing. I would rather have a great experience than a new purse or shoes. Let’s grow in Christ together.

Category: Men

  • Mission: Get Out and Mingle

    I have always been ahead academically and tragically remedial socially. Hey, it's a fact. Even after last year's resolution to get out twice a month, I didn't. Well, I have been doubling up. Last week the ballet and this week Brooklyn's Jazz Club with a friend from work. We made an oath to take Dallas by…

  • Raphael Matos (What Chilli Wants) Needs More Articles Written About Him

    You cannot appear on reality TV (What Chilli Wants) and not have articles (non-racing related) written about you, especially, when you are the future husband of my friend, TB. Okay, cute dimples? lol Raphael Matos was cut by Chilli from Season 2 of this crazy, unrealistic dating show, What Chilli Wants. Really, Chilli if you…

  • On Roads Not Taken and Second Chances. . .Forget About It

    The thought of the road not taken can haunt you unendingly without resolution. Just this constantly nagging, what if? If you need to catch up, read this. Long story short, I very rudely chose the very wrong guy over a very special friend. Said friend never spoke to me again for years. I revisited the…

  • Dear Single Women: Don’t Be Delusional

    Sitting at lunch with a group of people and the conversation turned to relationships. Seated at the table; a 60-year old married man, myself, another girl my age, a divorcee of 40ish and a 40ish single woman/no kids. The other young woman, let's call her Precious, starts going in about the type of guy she…

  • So I Finally Got Asked To Dinner. . .

     . . .by the wrong guy! lol Thursday was the last day of my internship. My manager planned this celebration. There was cake and snacks. A lot of people came down to say goodbye. Soooo my manager starts telling all of the delivery guys throughout the day that it was my last day. This one…

  • Can Men Without Fathers Become Great Spouses?

    I know that some men who are raised without the influence of their fathers can learn from that abandonment and become extraordinary fathers. I was wondering on this Father's Day, can men raised without a positive father in their life become nurturing and supportive husbands? I was watching Waiting To Exhale last night and the…

  • My How Time Flys When Your Single

    I will NOT disclose my age but as a point of reference I saw Waiting To Exhale in high school. I remember thinking to myself, "God don't let me end up like these women – 30, single and desperate." Fast forward to now, I am watching Let's Talk About Pep, I am thinking, "God' don't…

  • Note to Old Married Men. . .

    . . .don't nobody want you like that! LOL There is a guy who is waay to flirty . . .and old. . .and short. . .and married. Did I mention he was old? lol Anywho, there is another dude who is also less older, taller, married. . .and a Christian. I prefer to laugh…

  • Who Really Cares Who Reggie Bush is Dating?

    Apparently, there is some outrage among black women that Reggie Bush, who is famously dating Kim Kardashian, is on the Essence cover entitled Black Men, Love and Relationship Issue. The comments are off the chain! The problem? These sisters are screaming bloody murder because Reggie Bush is not (at least not currently) dating a black…

  • Black Women Being Unmarried is Now National News

    Thank you, ABC News! **insert sarcasm**     Steve Harvey says date older men. Ha, I wonder why? I would consider older, like 40, ONLY if he did NOT sport the 'stache. Stevie, baby, only Magnum P.I. can get away with the 'stache!