Super Nerdy Church Girl

A little nerdy, a little churchy, and a little flirty

Category: Relationships

  • I always meet people who are on a parallel journey. We have such similar experiences, it is as if I am looking at my reflection in a mirror.  I place my face in the cardboard cutout of their lives and it is almost mine – except my right is their left. You get what I…

  • I was scouring the internet for a competent review of this week's episode of R&B Divas LA. Finding none, I decided to write one. I am loving the new addition to the show – Chrisette Michele and Leela James. These two are eclectic artists with good spirits. They add fresh air and new perspective to…

  • I can honestly say that I had a great week. Seriously. I went home and saw my lovely family. I saw my nephew who I had not seen in nearly 6 or 7 years. He was shot in the lung a few months ago. By the grace of God he survived and is healthy and…

  • Today is a sunny, beautifully clear Friday. I am sitting at my cubicle doing what I love – writing. Of course, I am at the j-o-b on my lunch break cranking out a post before time to start again. Is not the intro a better opening – more positive? It is all about perspective. I…

  • I was re-reading some of my posts in 2008. Back then I wrote a lot more about relationships. I came across a post entitled, "What Do Good Black Men Want in a Relationship?" It was a topic on the Tyra Banks Show and I expounded upon it. I got some really good comments on the…

  • A woman’s heart is the most powerful force on the planet. For love, a mother will charge a lion, lift an SUV off of a child. That is the love of a mother. There is another kind of emotion – the love between a man and woman. This, too, is quite powerful. I know of…

  • Sooooooo, I am over at Brown Sista and there is a post entitled, "Why Are Women So Pressed to be Married?" Talk about loaded words, ma. You have got marriage and pressed and why all in one sentence?? lol I will summarize it for you, if you do not have time to read it. The…

  • Why is there pretense? This ever shielding wall that protects and keeps out the very thing you really want to let in. Too deep? It's Sunday night. There is a cool breeze blowing through my open balcony as I type. Dang it, I'm just deep! lol I am so guilty of this so I cannot…

  • Prior to me revealing my identity on Talulazoeapple, I used to write about everything my heart desired. I have been muted ever since. I have come to the conclusion that I will write what my heart desires and to the wind with the rest. I was supposed to meet this guy in Chicago over my…

  • This is the question in a new series we are tackling with the young adult ministry at church. It is really coming at a pivotal time in my life when I am considering the next stage – relationship, marriage and kids. No, I am not exclusively dating anyone but the thought has crossed my mind…