Super Nerdy Church Girl

A little nerdy, a little churchy, and a little flirty

Category: Men

  • LHHNY’s Cyn Santana and the Afro Latina Identity
  • Permission to Put You First

    Ever hear yourself talking and realize you need to take your own advice? I was being interviewed by hosts Denise Cole Hill and Wilson Murkinson for Nuu Beats Radio on Saturday. I start saying something like, “you have to give yourself permission to go for what you really want, not for what you think you…

  • I have seen two movies in less than a week, Sorry To Bother You and Equalizer 2. There will be no recaps as this is not a movie review. Suffice it to say, see both. They are really good. What struck me most about both films, is the presence of a black male character for whom the audience…

  • When I was a young girl, I wondered how my life would turn out when I became an adult. I grew up on Chicago's gritty west-side. I had seen many real life Unsung stars. Youth, beauty, talent derailed by drugs, violence and love gone wrong. I did not know how I would make it out…

  • I was re-reading some of my posts in 2008. Back then I wrote a lot more about relationships. I came across a post entitled, "What Do Good Black Men Want in a Relationship?" It was a topic on the Tyra Banks Show and I expounded upon it. I got some really good comments on the…

  • A woman’s heart is the most powerful force on the planet. For love, a mother will charge a lion, lift an SUV off of a child. That is the love of a mother. There is another kind of emotion – the love between a man and woman. This, too, is quite powerful. I know of…

  • I must preface the following by stating that I have NEVER watched a single episode of Preachers of LA and I never will, Lord willing. What I hear of it, it is an abomination. Yes, I just used abomination in a current context. Why do I feel so? I believe in keeping what is sacred,…

  • Sooooooo, I am over at Brown Sista and there is a post entitled, "Why Are Women So Pressed to be Married?" Talk about loaded words, ma. You have got marriage and pressed and why all in one sentence?? lol I will summarize it for you, if you do not have time to read it. The…

  • Why is there pretense? This ever shielding wall that protects and keeps out the very thing you really want to let in. Too deep? It's Sunday night. There is a cool breeze blowing through my open balcony as I type. Dang it, I'm just deep! lol I am so guilty of this so I cannot…

  • Prior to me revealing my identity on Talulazoeapple, I used to write about everything my heart desired. I have been muted ever since. I have come to the conclusion that I will write what my heart desires and to the wind with the rest. I was supposed to meet this guy in Chicago over my…