I should have been a cartographer because I truly believe in well-defined boundaries. Especially when it comes to men. Not just men that I may or may not be interested in, ALL men.
It is something my mother instilled in us girls. Kind of a defense mechanism. Some of us got it while others, well, didn't. To put it simply, NO MEANS NO. I think all women should bet a big red marker and outline what is acceptable to her and what is not, and stick with it!
I may go overboard sometimes but I have my reasons. I don't get to close with friends' boyfriends, husbands, baby daddies, etc. I have had those same guys when alone try to express their hidden love for me. Uh, no, back the heck up before I pepper spray you. LOL
I was watching a clip of For the Love of Ray J, I know I said I wouldn't watch, but mind-numbing reality shows are my weakness, especially when bored.
Anyway, these guys are discussing one of the final three girls. It turns out she had slept with a few of Ray J's "homies." These fools stand around singing a song about her, "Danger smashed the homies!"
I made it a rule NEVER to date a friend of an ex. I don't care how much I hated that ex. I would never ever date a friend of an ex and they have tried. From the cocky friend to the really sweet friend. The answer was always no. Just to avoid the following situation: