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Another Day, Another Compliment

The right compliment from the right guy can turn a blue day around.

I decided to become a bit more strategic with the flirtation. I put the exact flower, that this guy said was fake, on the left side of my hair to see what he would say.

Well, today, he looked at me and said, "Your hair, the flower, everything. . .you look so beautiful." I almost died. lol

Then he said he was in a hurry and could not stay.

What?

So what should my next step be?

Ironically, The Kid shoots me an email asking when can we hang out. I told him I would let him know. Was that rude?

Help me out here.

**Updated** The "Kid" is a separate guy (younger) very different from the guy who gives the compliments (older.) See this post.

Eat the Cake Anna Mae! Ok, Not So Much Cake Anna Mae

I really need to stop judging people based off of small actions. However, I find it annoying when people behave like greedy hoarders.

I had an extra cake left over from an event so I decided to take it in to work. After everyone in my department had eaten their fill, I invited some peole from another department to have the rest of the cake.

Why did Anna Mae Bulluck, go grab like two extra slices of cake, before the others could get some. I mean like really thick 3 inches across slabs. Now don't get me wrong. I am not watching what people eat if I invite them to dinner. Eat until your head explodes for all I care. I just though this was an odd behavior – for an adult.

What does it all mean? Maybe Anna just really likes cake. *shrugs shoulders*

Not that this has anything to do with a real person, it actually does, but would you date someone 8 years your junior? Would you hang out with him? Would you go to his church if he invited you?

Just questions? No, really, would you? lol

Note to Old Married Men. . .

. . .don't nobody want you like that! LOL

There is a guy who is waay to flirty . . .and old. . .and short. . .and married. Did I mention he was old? lol

Anywho, there is another dude who is also less older, taller, married. . .and a Christian. I prefer to laugh and talk with old, tall dude because he is RESPECTFUL, never makes sexual references, and is cool. Unlike old, short dude who is ALWAYS making sexual references, complains about his wife and is sooooo immature for his age.

So old, short dude comes at me like, "Leave old, tall dude alone. He is married."

So, I am like, "WTH?"

And old, short dude is like, "I see how you are with him."

So, I'm like, "Well, dude you are TOTALLY clueless." lol

There is nothing LESS attractive than an immature man, EXCEPT, an immature OLD MAN.

I did not want to hurt his feelings but I am sooo NOT attracted to old men. I enjoy their company probably due to some latent daddy issues but. . .

 . . .I can't get jiggy with that!

Now I feel all weird around, old, tall dude. I think too myself, Am I too nice or flirty with him?  I know with guys there is little room between nice and schwing!

I don't know. What do you guys think?

**Side note** The two guys have the same first name. Coincidence?