Super Nerdy Church Girl
A little nerdy, a little churchy, and a little flirty
Category: Marriage
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I was watching this PBS documentary about HIV rates among African Americans and was taken aback by the reasoning of women and young men regarding sexual activity. A lot of African Americans: a. Don't talk about sex and HIV transmission and b. Have an antiquated view of sex/HIV. Seriously, pregnancy is not the worst thing…
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As part of our seemingly endless conversations about relationships, a friend mentioned the idea of marrying someone with whom you are not in love. As evidence, this friend mentioned a woman who says that she married a man because everyone else told her that he was such a "good" man. It was when their child…
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So Meagan Good is getting married and she has not slept with her fiancee. They plan on being together for the first time on their wedding night. From what I can ascertain they have actually been dating for about a year although they have known each other a bit longer. Celibacy will make a…
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Usually this blog is all about me – what I am doing, what I want.This time I wanted to celebrate someone else. Many of you know that I have journaled my experiences in Dallas, TX since I touched down nearly five years ago. Today I attended a graduation of a friend who moved to Dallas,…
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I was pleasantly surpised. That pretty much summarizes my night at my church's revamped singles' night. The difference between this and last time – I had table duties. I got the great luxury of greeting people and explaining the process of creating a name tag, choosing a table, and getting refreshments. Not so bad right.…
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Someone I know is getting married. There is wedding planning discussions all the time, which I sometimes initiate and enjoy. However, this crap has me feeling extra, extra single. Discussing this extra, extra single phenomenon with a friend. She says, "I was in a meeting and everyone had a wedding ring except 1 senior citizen,…
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But He Had Potential. http://www.youtube-nocookie.com/embed/GpSuYZ2j5Ww When it comes to attraction to a man, what a woman likes at 18 is different than what she likes at 30. If I could impart any aged wisdom to young women looking for a mate – look with your more mature lens. Project your future. Maybe he is…
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I love my blog. It gives me the ability to peer back into my life to the date and time and really SEE how God works things out for me. Peep this, on 11/08/10 I wrote a post entitled Great Expectations. In said post, I stated what I expected from God and what I think…
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I am always attempting to predict the future. I put off things I really want to do afraid that once I commit something in my situation will change and I won't be able to follow through. The big questions of my life have centered around employment and where to live. I am fairly convinced that…
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You all should know my view on this but for discussion's sake, I'll entertain the question. I grew up in the holy, sanctified Church of God in Christ. Girls wore no pants, make up. We were not allowed to listen to secular music. Everyone knew that sex before marriage was a grave sin. Times have…